Eleni Economides

If you’re a woman who experiences lower libido than your partner, you may be stuck in what I call the "Low Libido Loop."   

If you’re stuck here, likely:  

 -You’re rarely in the mood for sex. 

 -Most of the time you have it, sex feels like a chore or an obligation or something that you check off your “to do” list. 

-At least once or twice a week, you dread when your partner will want to have sex again and you have a hard time relaxing around him.  

- At least once a week you get frustrated and annoyed with your partner for initiating sex. 

 -At least once a week you feel guilty about not wanting more sex.   

The reason why this is happening is because:  

-You often feel unsafe and self-conscious when it comes to sex, and you need to feel safe before you can engage in any kind of sexual intimacy.  

-You feel emotionally disconnected from your partner and often yourself. 

 - During sex, you are unable to shut your brain off and 9 out of 10 it’s difficult for you to feel turned on and experience sexual pleasure and orgasm. 

 - You prioritize your partner’s sexual pleasure and satisfaction, and you minimize or dismiss yours.  

- You often do not know what you like in bed and even if you did, you wouldn’t ask for it.   

And in order to fix it I bet you:  

- You have sex when you really don’t feel like it, to relieve the pressure you feel and to reduce the tension in your relationship.  

• As a result, you associate sex with something negative. 

-You tell your partner what to do to help you feel more connected to him (a.k.a. your love language) because you think that will help you want to have more sex.  

• But even when he does what you asked for you still don’t feel like having sex.  

- You ask your partner to be understanding about your lower desire, to stop initiating sex and to let you initiate.  

• But even when you have more time, you still don’t feel sexual desire naturally.  

- You ask for reassurance from your partner that he still loves you and that he will not leave or cheat because of your lack of sexual desire.  

• But even when he reassures you, you don’t feel any less insecure.  

- You drink alcohol or get high to relax and get in the mood for sex or to numb the resistance you have to it.  

This way of feeling in your intimate relationship sucks the joy out of intimacy, and if this is you, I want you to know there is a way out of this loop!

 I have worked with dozens of women that were stuck in the Low Libido Loop and helped them get out it.

I am accepting new clients and I encourage you to schedule a free consultation to see if you are someone I can help too!