Paul Field

Hi, I'm Paul and I specialise in providing a safe, nurturing space for women who want to connect with their bodies, sexuality, love and femininity. I have particular expertise in supporting those who have experienced sexual trauma or difficult relationships with men.

Sessions are a place where you can create experiences where you are in control, and your boundaries and wellbeing are the highest priority. They are a place where you can express yourself without shame or judgement. Where you can learn to overcome any barriers in the way of being the woman you want to be.

What might you explore?

Women come to me seeking support with a variety of experiences and challenges. Here are some areas we might explore together:

• Healing from sexual or emotional trauma and reclaiming your body
• Gaining confidence and expanding your experiences
• Improving relationships, particularly with men
• Cultivating self-love and positive body image
• Embracing your feminine power and energy
• Spiritual growth and exploring sacred sexuality
• Overcoming shame and guilt related to sexuality
• Navigating life transitions, such as menopause

What to Expect

Our sessions together are tailored to your unique needs and can include a range of approaches.

• Talking and Coaching: We can explore your experiences, desires, and challenges through open, compassionate dialogue.
• Embodiment Exercises: Simple activities to help you reconnect with your body and regulate your emotions.
• Conscious Touch: If you're comfortable, we can incorporate touch-based exercises. This might include holding, clothed touch, or more intimate forms of touch if you feel ready.
• The Wheel of Consent: Exercises to help you identify and communicate your boundaries and desires more effectively, and to enjoy receiving exactly what you'd like.
• Tantric Practices: Drawing from the wisdom of Tantra, we could explore breath work, energy movement, and mindfulness. These practices can help you connect with your own energy, and build a deeper connection to something greater than yourself, whether that's the universe, love, or your own sense of the divine.
• Intimate Bodywork: If you're interested and feel ready, we can explore full-body tantric massage, including genital (yoni) massage. This nurturing touch can help you release tension, awaken sensations, and connect more deeply with your body and feminine energy. It's a powerful tool for healing and self-discovery, always conducted with the utmost respect for your boundaries and comfort.

The aim is always for you to feel cared for, empowered, and connected to your body in a way that aligns with your needs and boundaries.

About Me

I came to this work as part of my own spiritual path and by working with a woman who'd experienced sexual assault as a teenager. I came to realise the devastating effects men can have on women. And also to discover the flame in women cannot be extinguished and, with love and support, every woman can shine brightly in the world. I came to realise that walking alongside women on their journey of healing was the most meaningful work I could do.

I blend modern coaching and body-based approaches with spiritual knowledge from yoga and Tantra, which allows you to explore the paths that are best for you. I am a Certified Sexological Bodyworker, a member of the ACSB (Association of Certified Sexological Bodyworkers) and a member of the ASIS (Association of Somatic and Integrative Sexologists). I am trained in Somatic Trauma Therapy, and have been studying and practicing Tantra for over six years.

Contact Me

I offer a free 60min Zoom chat if you would like to explore what we could create together. You can contact me:

• WhatsApp
• Email: paul@awakenthewoman.co.uk
• Phone: +44 796 139 1468
• or Read more on my website

Testimonials

“I had severe trust issues with men due to previous trauma but the sessions I received from Paul were so loving and nurturing. He made me feel cherished, seen, attractive but, most importantly of all, safe… Paul is incredibly sensitive, patient and loving. I feel I have made huge progress and feel ready to embark on a new relationship after keeping myself closed down for so many years.” — Elizabeth

“I am so grateful for the experience. It felt like such a gift and I felt so honoured and revered as a goddess. Paul really held the masculine energy with clear intention and brought true purity of intention and energy to his work.” — Jacqueline

“I felt so honoured, seen and safe. I felt incredible. I still can’t get over the warm waves of sensation in my body. I can’t believe the change: this morning I woke so calm. I’m holding myself with compassion. I feel like a woman that is worthy of love.” — Jennifer