Graham Stevenson

Sex is part of the great mystery of life that no-one tells us much about or even teaches us any skills. Many of us are left groping in the dark to initiate ourselves in fear and ignorance.  And yet it has the potential to be mind-blowing, a spiritual experience, the glue that keeps intimate relationships together for life.   I had a messy and painful start, like many others, but have managed to turn it all into something deeply meaningful and good.  This is why I love working with people who feel like they have lost their way and don't know where to turn for help.

Our sexuality is a core aspect of our individuality and sense of self that gives us the confidence to go out and make deeply intimate connections and live well.  I help people to come home to themselves, gain that confidence and get a clear sense of choice.

My clients are individuals with specific issues such as confidence with orgasm and pleasure, fear around performance and relating to those they want to be intimate with.  I have many couples as clients who are being challenged with the loss of sexual energy in a long term relationship or specific problems such as betrayal or wanting to open up the relationship.  

For all of my clients I aim to facilitate a path to their goals through honest open discussion, some Adult Sex Education, plenty of homework exercises to stimulate understanding and discussion, as well as homeplay exercises to expand your erotic repertoire ... and anything else I think might work in the moment.